Losing the love of my life started an unwelcome journey that I did not want to face. I have always beleived that people are in your life for a reason... to learn from. Tim taught me so much in the years I shared with him.  The things that stand
out the most are;

To belive in myself, and not to worry what other people think.
To love me for me, and to find strength in my weaknesses.

It has now been two years since Tim passed, and as I look back over these two years one of the questions I keep asking myself is what have I learnt from Tim dying?

To appreciate your loved ones, family and friends and the time you spend with them. Never take them for granted.
Cherish every minute of your life, good and bad. For with out the bad you cannot appreciate the good.
Dont worry over the trivial things in life, they always work out in the end.
And to help people. Every one on this earth is someones parent, child, brother, sister.
I am sure that if your loved one was in trouble you would help them no matter what the problem was.

That's why I am so passionate about helping people and this is a new begining for me.
It is this reason that I want to share with you the information that has helped me accept Tims death (I don't have to like it but I have learnt to accept it.)

The things that are now helping me on my new journey, one where now I am seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Inspiring me to change my life, live with passion, and be the best role model for my children that I can possibily be.

Below are links to books, dvd's,  and other information that I have found useful during my grief and my journey.
It is my sincerest wish that these resources will help you as much as they have helped me.

I still miss Tim so terribilly much but with the help of this information, time and my children I have found a reason to live again.

Please email me any other links that you come accross you think may help others and I will add them to this page. info@special-funeral-poems.com



 www.davidkessler.org
 www.elizabethkublerross.com 
both have written numerous books on grief, death dying, and coping. I read "Life lessons" which helped me understand life and death so much and would reccomend anyone read not only this book but the other countless information provided
by these two extraodinary people. Both David and Elizabeth's website offers valuable information on death dying,coping, grief and other books they have written on these subjects.  Elizabeth spent her life helping the terminally ill and their family cope with life and death a truly inspirational lady.

   

 The Secret 
This amazing movie I was lucky enough to whatch about 1 1/2 years after Tim died.
It explains one of the Law of Attraction. An uplifting, eye opening movie that inspired me to be grateful for what I have and taught me that you can, do, have ,be, whatever you put your mind too.

 


  www.angelsbysharae.com/AskTheAngels.html
This website offers you free inspirational messages from angels using  cards from Doreen Virtue.
I have often gone to this site for guidence.  My mother actually brought a set of cards for me and I find the messages I get from them help and guide me on my low days.

  www.scienceofgettingrich.net 
I have known of this book for along time. This book is actually the basis for the movie The Secret.  It goes in depth into the other laws of the universe and also helps you understand  what you think and how you act has a massive impact on your life.

  www.themissinglinkbook.com
I have recently read this amazing book by a gifted medium who shares her thoughts on life after death and also living your life to evolve.

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